How to choose a gift perfectly? Well, as a girlfriend, you would have realized by now that picking the right present is not that easy, as it sounds. Though you and I will be happy with a bouquet of fresh flowers and a chocolate box, it is way too hard to impress a guy when it comes to gifts. A perfect gift is something that shows your thoughtfulness and love. To ensure that you are buying the right gift for your boyfriend, you need to pass 10 essential checklists. I have researched, tried and finally have written them to make your work easier.
How To Choose A Gift For Your Boyfriend?
Whether it is Christmas, Valentine’s Day, anniversary, boyfriend’s birthday, or any other special occasion, gifts will always be there. Since online shopping sites have millions and millions of collections, picking the right gift, especially for the man of your life seems a little perplexing. But a few things can help you come up with an ideal gift. It all comes down to how you narrow it. To do this, here are 10 tips to bear in mind while choosing a gift for your boyfriend:
1. Know What He Likes And Doesn’t Like
Since he is your boyfriend, you should know what his likes and dislikes are. If you have been dating each other for some time now, you would have learned this through various conversations. However, if you still have not, then just start a discussion, drag for a while and then talk about it generally without making him realize what you are up to because if he finds out that you don’t even know what he likes and dislikes, it can be a very embarrassing. Moreover, you will feel a little awkward to face him. Listen to what he says. Ask him questions. During conversations, it is normal for him to drop some hints. So, pay keen attention and learn what makes him happy.
2. Buy Something He Would Never Expect
There is a reason people surprise their loved ones on their birthdays. Gifts are meant to be a bolt from the blue. Just imagine if your guy already knows what you are getting for him, do you think it would be special? Strike something between his desirability and unpredictability. At the end of the day, it’s more important for your boyfriend to like what you get him, but the surprise factor makes the gift-giving even more enjoyable. Just imagine if your guy already knows what you are getting for him, do you think it would be special? Strike something between his desirability and unpredictability. At the end of the day, it’s more important for your boyfriend to like what you get him, but the surprise factor makes the gift-giving even more enjoyable.
3. Jot Down His Needs
He may need a few things, but he may not say it out. Consider his profession and lifestyle. There may be a gift, which can make his life efficient. Say, for example; he is someone who keeps and forgets stuff, then probably a Bluetooth tracking device can be of great help. So, come with a gift option that will make his life simpler. Say, for example; he is someone who keeps and forgets stuff, then probably a Bluetooth tracking device can be of great help. So, come with a gift option that will make his life simpler. Say, for example; he is someone who keeps and forgets stuff, then probably a Bluetooth tracking device can be of great help. So, come with a gift option that will make his life simpler.
4. Come Up With A Gift Idea That He Wants
Once you know what his likes and dislikes are, the next step is to prepare a clear list. Based on the conversations you have had earlier, write down the things he likes. I am sure; there would be many but just list them down. When you do this, try to connect each item on the list with those conversations.
There would be one thing he would have often talked about or must have stressed a lot about it. Highlight that particular item; this is what he wants. So, boom. Surprise him this birthday.
I will tell you what I did. I used to have very long conversations with my boyfriend. I keep bugging him with questions and questions. Obviously, he doesn’t have any other option than to answer them. During those conversations with him, I found that he often spoke about PlayStation and latest gaming consoles from Blizzard.
So, this was it. It made my job easier. Yes, of course, I had to spend a big amount of money on it (I almost started saving some money every day) but the joy I had after he opened my gift on his birthday was precious. He didn’t expect it. He had a big smile on his face and was so happy. Understand that your boyfriend loves many things, but there will be a few in particular, which he just keeps on talking about. You just need to keep your ears open.
5. Check For Stuff He Already Owns
Since you are in a relationship, you should have observed the kind of things your boyfriend possesses. Perhaps, he is fond of electronic gadgets or collecting some expensive, old stamps. Whatever it is, keep your eyes wide open and see what he already has and based on that, come up with a gift that will blow his mind. Perhaps, he is fond of electronic gadgets or collecting some expensive, old stamps. Whatever it is, keep your eyes wide open and see what he already has and based on that, come up with a gift that will blow his mind. When you buy something he really needs, it will surely make him happy and surprised at the same time.
6. Use Your Smartness To Come With An Exclusive Gift
If you surely want to impress your boyfriend with a gift, “personalization“ is the way. For example, you can present him a high-end laptop and customize it by sticking his favorite superhero poster or perhaps, buy him a custom-made watch, which has his name emblazoned on it. It all comes down to your “creative thinking”. Be smart enough to choose a gift that will make him love you more. Research and look at different online shopping websites. Shortlist your ideas and his favorite stuff.
7. Make Sure That Your Gift Is 100% Useful
Don’t get a gift just because you have to. Also, don’t buy a gift that is absolute nonsense. Perhaps, something he will use for a few hours and then dispose off. It has to be something he is fond of and can be utilized on a daily basis. Say, for example, a cool smartwatch. He will wear it wherever he goes. A gift should be something that reminds him of you always. It has to be something he is fond of and can be utilized on a daily basis. Say, for example, a cool smartwatch. He will wear it wherever he goes. A gift should be something that reminds him of you always.
8. Purchase A Gift Based On The Occasion
Every occasion is different. Your boyfriend’s birthday is different from Valentine’s Day. So never weigh them on the same scale. Have a basic understanding and buy a gift based on the occasion. The event and the gift you give should associate with each other. Just imagine giving a Christmas cap on your boyfriend’s birthday? Not only will this be embarrassing but also disappointing. Also, you will have his friends surrounded. Don’t become a laughing stock! Be wise while buying a gift for your boyfriend.
9. Ask Someone For Ideas
Though this is not something I would recommend, it still seems a good idea when you are too confused. Ask his colleagues or close friends for guidance. He will surely be surprised when he sees that you got a gift, which he had always wanted. However, this requires utmost secrecy or else, you may end up spoiling the perfect occasion. Also, he might be disappointed when he gets to know that you have used his friend’s help to select a gift. So, the choice is yours.
10. Start Your Gift-Hunting Well Earlier
Last but not the least, time is a crucial factor. Once you start hunting for a better gift, you will come across lots of options and along with it, the invited headache of course. You will need sufficient time to pick one. So, begin the work a month prior the occasion.
Conclusion
The idea of a gift here is to make him happy. So, come up with an option that would bring him a big smile. Hope, these tips helped you a lot. However, if you feel that I have missed writing something here, please feel free to drop it in the comments box.